I’m thinking about what luxury is. The immediate images that spring to mind are things like 5 star hotels, holidays in the Seychelles, movie star lifestyles… things that most of us can only dream about. Extreme luxury.
To some luxury might just be a chocolate bar. A bed to sleep on. A trip to the seaside. Things that we might take for granted.
It depends where you’re coming from as to what luxury is. Sometimes maybe it’s better being near the bottom of the heap because any slight perk seems like a luxury, you can be much more appreciative. But to struggle is not the goal, not for anyone. And no matter where you are in life, gratitude is always important.
I have time on my hands. Some would say this is luxury. It can be both a blessing and a curse. Feels like time has slowed down, as I watch the clock waiting for midday when I can leave the office and go waste an hour somewhere else. Doing nothing makes the brain tick though, even if the clock doesn’t seem to be. No distractions, just thoughts bubbling away. Is this it? Why am I doing this? What else can I do? Is it better than before? And can I do this for x number of years, until my time is up… is it just time wasted?? WHAT CAN I DO??? What should I be doing…
When you’ve got lots to do, doing nothing is a joy. When you’ve got nothing to do, doing nothing is tiresome. I thought when you grew up these sorts of dilemmas went away, that you knew what your aims were and that’s it, you get on. I still feel lost. And in reality, time is slipping away.